Sunday, July 09, 2006

Broken hearts are for ass-holes

Some of you might not agree
cause you probably likes a lot of misery
But think a while and you will see...
Broken hearts are for assholes
Broken hearts are for assholes
Are you an asshole?
Broken hearts are for assholes
Are you an asshole too?
Whatcha gonna do, cause youre an asshole...


From the late great lyrical, philosopher, composer genius FRANK ZAPPA

With my daughter out of the hospital, one may wonder why I am chose this as a topic of discussion -but I have my reasons. Quite simply - I believe that there are those who choose destructive situations for one reason or another, or relationships that lead them to misery or "broken hearts" and even though they chose this situation, they continue to blame the other person - the heartbreaker - so to speak for causing the misery in their lives. I believe - all though it may take a while to figure this out - and some may never - that we have a choice in the situations and relationships we choose - and that we can choose good or bad situations, depending on what we want for ourselves. Whatever we choose - it is on us what happens - and if you are in a bad relationship - get out of it. If you continue to choose people who are unavailable - physically or emotionally - guess what - you will get what you come for. Ultimatley nobody can make me happy except myself - my wife can't do it for me, you can't do it for me, and I am not asking you anyways. I know how to inspire myself, and I rely on myself for that, not you. I have been with Victoria 10 years - and althouth it is not happily ever after by any stretch, I would not trade my decision for anything - because I like her and I think she is a good mother and wife. She is handling this time of crisis incredibly well. If I was looking for happily ever after, I would jump into the nearest Cinderella story (I believe there is an x-rated version floating around in my library somewhere) and live it out as a fantasy, because that is the only place happily ever after really exists. You spend your whole life sitting around waiting for your prince or princess charming to arrive, and all it will give you is a sore ass. There it is - wisdom for the day. And while I am at it - to love someone goes beyond infatuation and chasing the latest rush or flavor of the day, true love involves real commitment - long past the day that the initial magic fades and fleeting temptation presents itself - when love is real NOT FADE AWAY!


When happily ever after fails
And we've been poisoned by these fairy tales
The lawyers dwell on small details
Since daddy had to fly

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